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    8/29/2009

    或许有一天,你也是这样的蘑菇,打着伞的,或者不打伞的。

    很久以前,有这样一个joke:

        有一个精神病人,以为自己是一只蘑菇,于是他每天都撑着一把伞蹲在房间的墙角里,不吃也不喝,像一只真正的蘑菇一样。

       心理医生想了一个办法。有一天,心理医生也撑了一把伞,蹲坐在了病人的旁边。病人一直不和他说话。若干天之后,病人很奇怪地问:你也是蘑菇么???

    医生回答:我也是一只蘑菇呀。病人点点头,继续做他的蘑菇。

        过了一会儿,医生站了起来,在房间里走来走去,病人就问他:你不是蘑菇么,怎么可以走来走去?医生回答说:蘑菇当然也可以走来走去啦!病人觉得有道理,就也站起来走走。

        又过了一会儿,医生拿出一个汉堡包开始吃,病人又问:咦,你不是蘑菇么,怎么可以吃东西?医生理直气壮地回答:蘑菇当然也可以吃东西呀!病人觉得很对,于是也开始吃东西。

        几个星期以后,这个精神病人就能像正常人一样生活了,虽然,他还觉得自己是一只蘑菇。

        这个故事里有两个道理。

        第一,一个人可以带着过去的创伤继续,只要他把悲伤放在心里的一个圈圈里,不要让苦痛浸染了他的整个生命,他就可以像正常人一样快乐的生活。

        第二,当一个人悲伤得难以自持的时候,也许,他不需要太多的劝解和安慰,训诫和指明,他需要的,只是能有一个在他身边蹲下来,陪他做一只蘑菇. 




    转自青黛同学新浪博客微笑

    8/26/2009

    节日

    节日把人们分成两种,
    上网的和不上网的书呆子
    8/24/2009

    推荐电影 守望者

    不论是启示录,还是地球停转之日,再到今年的守望者,都在探讨着同一个话题
    8/22/2009

    msn出问题了,好多联系人都被删掉了

    不知道是咋回事,或许被黑了?rpwt失望
    8/14/2009

    2009年8月14日

    早上五点钟,走到大连东南角悬崖边,透过迷雾,看这海上缓缓升起的太阳。
    拿起手机,给妈妈打了个电话,谢谢爸爸妈妈。
     
    默默对自己说,生日快乐
     
    8/8/2009

    复杂性科学与人类的未来

    在网上查了下期末的成绩,那门以为过不去的课程,光华的王其文老师还给了我89分——复杂系统的非线性方法。
    而另一门课程,哲学系的复杂性科学与哲学,也得了85分。
     
    原子分子出现之前,关于化学的规律是不存在的。
    生命出现之前,关于生态,分子生物学的法则是不存在的。
    人类出现之前,关于社会,经济,政治的规律是不存在的。
     
    世界越来越复杂,新的规律不断的产生。我们,一面要寻求那些最基本的物质运动规律。又在追赶着迅速发展的世界。
    那么,人是什么呢?是世界发展到一定阶段的必然产物么?
    我们的生存和自身的意志,是人的本能,动物的本能,还是世界的本能。
     

    The Song of the Happy Shepherd

    THE woods of Arcady are dead,
    And over is their antique joy;
    Of old the world on dreaming fed;
    Grey Truth is now her painted toy;
    Yet still she turns her restless head:
    But O, sick children of the world,
    Of all the many changing things
    In dreary dancing past us whirled,
    To the cracked tune that Chronos sings,
    Words alone are certain good.
    Where are now the warring kings,
    Word be-mockers? - By the Rood,
    Where are now the watring kings?
    An idle word is now their glory,
    By the stammering schoolboy said,
    Reading some entangled story:
    The kings of the old time are dead;
    The wandering earth herself may be
    Only a sudden flaming word,
    In clanging space a moment heard,
    Troubling the endless reverie.
    Then nowise worship dusty deeds,
    Nor seek, for this is also sooth,
    To hunger fiercely after truth,
    Lest all thy toiling only breeds
    New dreams, new dreams; there is no truth
    Saving in thine own heart. Seek, then,
    No learning from the starry men,
    Who follow with the optic glass
    The whirling ways of stars that pass -
    Seek, then, for this is also sooth,
    No word of theirs - the cold star-bane
    Has cloven and rent their hearts in twain,
    And dead is all their human truth.
    Go gather by the humming sea
    Some twisted, echo-harbouring shell.
    And to its lips thy story tell,
    And they thy comforters will be.
    Rewording in melodious guile
    Thy fretful words a little while,
    Till they shall singing fade in ruth
    And die a pearly brotherhood;
    For words alone are certain good:
    Sing, then, for this is also sooth.
    I must be gone: there is a grave
    Where daffodil and lily wave,
    And I would please the hapless faun,
    Buried under the sleepy ground,
    With mirthful songs before the dawn.
    His shouting days with mirth were crowned;
    And still I dream he treads the lawn,
    Walking ghostly in the dew,
    Pierced by my glad singing through,
    My songs of old earth's dreamy youth:
    But ah! she dreams not now; dream thou!
    For fair are poppies on the brow:
    Dream, dream, for this is also sooth. 

    ----William Butler Yeats

    8/5/2009

    果然被河Y_Y蟹发现了!

    再去看评论时,那些大清早就顶到三四千的评论都消失了。
    伟大的河蟹~书呆子